Beyond the ordinary

The path of positive nature is a way of life. It is living without a major influence of negativity in one's thinking. It is important to recondition your thinking. To use it as it is meant, and understand it's true power. It is walking within the bounds of life's reality. Our evolution has brought us up in a way to allow us the best possible chance of gaining comprehension. The experience of negativity actually created or revealed strength we have. We just haven't gained the appropriate perception because we are just coming to that understanding. It is really not worth the trip when we create so much negativity.
Do you know that you create all the negativity in your journey? You may not be able to control the situations around you, but you can always choose how you look at everything. It is negative thoughts that produce negative emotion in us. And we are our thinking. There may be plenty of function that is automatic and we not be aware of the process of thought which creates every function. But there is plenty that we can control. With effort at first but it can become just as natural as your negative habits you are comfortable with now.
If you think about it, what is your life? And as you tell me about it, are you not creating with the telling? You are the narrator of every step of your experiences for you. You are the interpreter for every aspect. Anything that comes from another person, was accepted as true by you. It is also true that life is not negative until we tell ourselves it is.
We all are driven by a need of love. It would seem the belief right now is that we need find a partner to know real love. But I see this as a misunderstanding of love. I believe that love was created to motivate us to strive to be the best person we can for ourselves. If you consider that the only time love is given and received in the same vein or understanding is self love. It is important for human beings to realize that logic and reason are the only ways to approach life.
It is only humanity that doesn't follow life's design of pure logic, everything else follows a path of unison. It all functions as a whole mechanism. We contribute to it but not with much sense so far. But there is really no blame or wrong or any other negative label need be placed on any of the experiences of learning we go through to grow. If we look realistically at the life process, rises the level of our possible potential.
Self esteem is our opinion of our self. And low self esteem runs rampant in humanity. We are not conscious enough of our own being, what makes us tick.